Online Dating Safety Tips


Online dating is as safe, and in some ways safer than meeting people offline. Online dating services protect your anonymity at all times (your real name, contact details, and so on) and provide tools to block and report bad apples, as well as online dating safety tips like these. The rest is up to you. If there's any danger at all, it's that you feel too safe and forget to use your common sense. So, here are some reminders to help keep your online dating experiences safe and enjoyable.

Remain anonymous:

Never, ever include your real name, address or contact details in your profile or personal ad, or communications with other members. Remember, there's absolutely no reason why anyone would need these details. Online dating services provide plenty of options for communicating, safely and anonymously.

Be wary of anyone who presses for information:

At online dating sites the focus is on personalities, interests, values and so on ? the type of information that helps you determine if someone's "the one." Specific details, like your exact address, or place of work or study aren't relevant and you should be immediately suspicious of anyone who pushes for this type of information.

Keep it vague:

Telling someone that you workout out at the gym every night is fine. Telling them at which gym, at what times, and that you're afraid of the dark alley behind it is not!

Don't paint a picture:

Remember, some people are very good at putting two and two together to learn more about you than you'd like them to know! Again, keep it vague.

Go slow:

Take your time getting to know someone. If someone seems too good to be true, they probably are. With time, you'll spot any inconsistencies and realize that things don't quite add up.

Act on your instincts:

If you're uncomfortable communicating with another member, move on. There's no need to explain. One of the big advantages of dating online is that you can block other members, making yourself instantly inaccessible, zapping them out of your life!

Report bad apples:

The better online dating services devote money and personnel to quality control but appreciate your help. They have systems in place that make it easy to report members who are spoiling their service for others.

Choose a quality dating site:

Last but not least, choose a well-established, popular site with plenty of members. Popularity is a good indicator that a dating service is doing plenty to keep it's members happy, including tools and policies that keep you safe online.

Copyright 2005 Caroline Mackenzie

Caroline Mackenzie is Co-Owner/Webmaster of The Dating Muse, a guide to online dating services and personals featuring reviews of the top online dating sites plus tips and ideas for finding friends, dates, soulmates and sexual adventure online. You can visit her site at http://DatingMuse.com and subscribe to her newsletter at http://datingmuse.com/subscribe.htm







Related News



DJ Dating in San Francisco - PR Web (press release)

DJ Dating in San Francisco
PR Web (press release), WA -2 hours ago
The DJ4Life academy in San Francisco offers an alternative dating activity to the industry standard "dinner and a movie." People with varying backgrounds ...

AMANDA BEARD DENIES DATING MICHAEL PHELPS - New York Post

Telegraph.co.uk

AMANDA BEARD DENIES DATING MICHAEL PHELPS
New York Post, NY -7 hours ago
Beard denied yesterday that she was dating Phelps, saying, "Eww, that's nasty." "I have never, ever hooked up with Michael Phelps," Beard said via telephone ...
Michael Phelps denies he is dating Amanda BeardInternational Business Times
Michael Phelps Denies Dating Amanda BeardBodog Beat
Lily Donaldson Dating Michael PhelpsFemaleFirst.co.uk
Catwalk Queen - E! Online
all 41 news articles

The Speed Of Dating @ Taurus Bar - Manchester Evening News

The Speed Of Dating @ Taurus Bar
Manchester Evening News, UK -37 minutes ago
Although The Speed Of Dating is, first and foremost, very funny, there’s an element of pathos to proceedings and Evans’ skilful writing is well served by a ...

Secret dating a conflict of interest for Prince George RCMP head ... - CBC.ca

CBC.ca

Secret dating a conflict of interest for Prince George RCMP head ...
CBC.ca, Canada -17 hours ago
Now CBC has obtained a confidential report by lawyer Kitty Heller that notes Chambers began "secretly dating" a senior city manager in the detachment in ...

Amanda Beard dating Michael Phelps? ‘Ew, no!’ - MSNBC

TopNews

Amanda Beard dating Michael Phelps? ‘Ew, no!’
MSNBC -7 hours ago
What’s so icky about dating Michael Phelps? It seems that Beard, a past Playboy pinup, doesn’t care for his appearance. “C’mon, I have really good taste,” ...
Amanda Beard: Dating Michael Phelps would be 'nasty'New York Daily News
Amanda Beard says she is too classy to be dating Michael Phelps!Thaindian.com
Michael Phelps: "I am not dating Amanda Beard."OK! Magazine
E! Online - TMZ.com
all 10 news articles

'Maximizing' dating presents a moral quandary - Toronto Star

'Maximizing' dating presents a moral quandary
Toronto Star,  Canada -51 minutes ago
Q: I'm single and "parallel dating." I've been seeing one girl for two months. We're physically intimate, but have had neither explicit discussions about ...

Dating On The Cheap - Hartford Courant

Dating On The Cheap
Hartford Courant, United States -11 hours ago
By JEFF HERRING | McClatchy-Tribune News Service Whether we are in an actual recession or not, here is the bottom line: Prices are up, and many people are ...

Bow Wow Dating Run's Daughter? - San Francisco Chronicle

Bow Wow Dating Run's Daughter?
San Francisco Chronicle,  USA -11 hours ago
Simmons, 25, was dating pro-skater Terry Kennedy but the pair allegedly split earlier this year. And now the beauty is said to be dating the star, ...


Sharon Stone dating a toyboy? - Newstrack India

Sharon Stone dating a toyboy?
Newstrack India, India -34 minutes ago
Washington, Aug 20 (ANI): American actress Sharon Stone is reportedly dating a man who is less than half her age. Emmy award winning Stone, 50, ...

Is Sharon Stone dating a 24-year-old? - Sify

Sify

Is Sharon Stone dating a 24-year-old?
Sify, India -2 hours ago
Basic Instinct star Sharon Stone is reportedly dating a man who is less than half her age. Contactmusic.com reports that Stone, 50, is dating a 24-year-old ...