What are Seduction Lairs?
Are you familiar with Seduction Lairs and how to use them
to your advantage? They are around purely for your benefit if you wish to get better with women. If you want to get better with women it
will help you if you find other individuals who share the same goals to keep you motivated and learn from. They are a great resource if you take advantage of them. What you really want to do if join a local lair and find others who are good with women. Copy their beliefs, mentality and attitude and you will have the sameoutcome that they have. You can also learn about all the major seduction methods in the lairs as the majority of them are open to just about anything that works. If you do not live anywhere near a city that has a local lair why don't you start
one? Go to http://groups.yahoo.com/ and start a group of your own. Yeah you might not have that much skill yet but if you are actively searching for others and trying to help you will be surprised how quickly you can find some new friends. Robert Torrey who works with Fidentia has run the local San Diego lair. He also has a group in Yahoo where all the presidents of local lairs hang out to discuss running a lair politics giving each other advice on what is best
for their group. If you are thinking of starting a lair go here RunningaPUAgroup-subscribe at yahoogroups dot com Send Robert Torrey aka Nightlife an email at nightlife858 at yahoo dot com that you want to start a lair and would like to join the above group. Than add your info to the database on the group. There are many suggestions in older threads
of how to find members. If you join any lair please let them know you found out about them through Fidentia. To learn about the local Seduction Lairs go to this website. http://www.fidentia.org/seduction_lairs.htm This article was written by Robert Torrey. He is one of the partners in a dating confidence firm called Fidentia. Fidentia has a free newsletter available on their website providing lots of tips and advice.
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